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BLD Celebrates One Year : giveaways & an exciting reader poll!

Hi everyone!

Today marks the one year anniversary of BabyLuxe {daily}! I can hardly believe a whole year has gone by since that one quiet night that I started blogging about my favorite baby products, just because I had nothing better to do with my time… A year ago I was in the midst of my {delayed} baby blues, potty training, preparing Colin for preschool, weaning Alex from nursing & starting him on solids. I guess it’s safe to say I was slightly bored & was looking for some sort of exciting new venture to embark upon. I never imagined the response that I would get from our many, many loyal and devoted readers & for that, I wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart!

So to celebrate this occasion, I have decided to revisit those first few weeks & pay special tribute to the “top 5″ products that truly inspired me to start writing BabyLuxe! At the end of this feature, I have an exciting poll that I would love your feedback on, and to say thank you, we are hosting some amazing giveaways; the feature products themselves!

Here now, in no particular order, are my all-time favorite, cannot live without, private label, baby products!

Swaddle Designs : To this day, we would be lost without our Ultimate Receiving Blanket, by Swaddle Designs! Alex was swaddled in his blanket morning, noon and night, right up until he was about six months old. I suppose maybe that is why he was {and still is} one of the best sleepers ever, a tie with my first son… Yes, my darling 18 month old STILL takes a morning and afternoon nap for me, 4-5 hours total, and goes to bed at 7:30 pm without a peep, only to sleep a full 12 hours most nights. I truly attribute these sleep habits to his Ultimate Receiving Blanket keeping him tight & cozy as an infant, and providing continuous security to him as he breezes easily through toddlerhood.

Bebe Au Lait : Some of you may recognize this as the Hooter Hider. Whichever you call it, this is one of those must-have baby products that no nursing mother should go without, not to mention it is the original nursing cover! Aside from being a beautiful accessory to your nursing self, it also provides just the right amount of privacy that you and baby need while you nurse. I loved being able to conveniently nurse Alex wherever we happened to be, and not feel as though I was being offensive in any way to innocent {& sometimes naive} bystanders. I have proudly passed my beloved Bebe Au Lait along to my favorite nursing mommy friends & relatives, so that they too could experience the joys of convenient & stylish nursing!

Phil & Ted’s : If you’re on your second {third, fourth or fifth} child, then you certainly know the feeling of dread & anxiety that comes with choosing a “double” stroller! Well, all I can say is that you simply must talk to the knowledgeable women at Let’s Go Strolling! They will give it to you straight up, complete with all the details and answers you could ever ask for, free of charge! I worked with Melissa on my stroller choice, and she steered me in the direction of one of my best purchase decisions to-date; a Phil & Ted’s E3 with Toddler kit! While the E3 is no longer available, it has been replaced with something even better; the Phil & Ted’s Sport Buggy with Toddler Seat. I won’t go into all the details here, but I will tell you one thing: while there is no one perfect double stroller out there, I have heard from countless moms & experts, and agree myself, this is by far the best option available! You can see the complete line of Phil & Ted’s products at Let’s Go Strolling!

Hotslings : Never one to consider myself an “attachment” parent, my Hotsling was the one exception! I am saddened to think that Alex is most definitely too big to be “slung” & I may never again experience the joy that my Hotsling once brought to me. He’d nap in there, shop in there, occasionally eat in there & he even witnessed numerous diaper changes from that bird’s eye view {of his brother, obviously}. My Hotsling was truly my sanity saver, above everything else that came my way in those early months of life with two! As I sit here & watch my partner Dana try out and review all the fabulous new baby wearing contraptions on the market, all I long for are the days that Alex would just hang out with me, in the kangaroo carry position, going wherever I went, all day long…

baby star : Both of my kids were pukers, plain and simple. There were never enough burp cloths in sight & I never went anywhere without one, ever. So it was always nice to tote along something that, while practical, was also adorable & easy on my baby’s little faces! The best place that I have found to carry that “perfect” burp cloth, is baby star! They use the basic cloth diaper burp cloths, and then add an impressive wow factor with their luxurious poodle & diamond fabric down the center & their signature designs along the edges. The diaper burps are super absorbent & super cute!

So by now you must be wondering about our readers’ poll & the exciting giveaways we’re offering! After spending the past few days reflecting on this past year, and all of the wonderful baby products that have inspired me to publish this {daily} editorial, I start to wonder, is there room in our life for one more? One more baby, that is… After all, how else could I keep up with the momentum of BabyLuxe, if there aren’t any more babies to test the luxuries on??? I suppose that would be poor justification for bringing another baby into the world… Maybe so, but like my partner Dana said, until we decide that we absolutely do not want any more, there is always that possibility. The time is nearing that I feel the need to make this life-changing decision. I just turned 30, and if we’re going to have one more go at it, I’d prefer to get it over with before I hit 31! Though I have been saying {& truly felt} “No” for the past 6 months, it seems like there may be a little voice inside my head trying to tell me something else. Or maybe I am just crazy. What are your thoughts on going from 2 to 3, what are my chances of getting “my girl” if we do this one more time, will I lose my mind, can we stand to be like to be outnumbered by children, what about the middle-child syndrome {will Alex suffer}? Thoughts, insights, suggestions… I’m taking {and considering} them all!

Everyone that posts a comment with regards to this question {AND a comment on your favorite “top 5″ product}, will be entered into this fabulous giveaway! Currently, we have three prizes: The Ultimate Receiving Blanket, a Bebe Au Lait & a gift certificate to Let’s Go Strolling! We are hoping to add two more prizes by our other “top 5″ designers, but we’re still waiting on confirmation.

UPDATE - we now have a Hotsling & baby star burp cloths to give away as well! Winner’s choice!

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Thanks so much for your sincere comments & feedback! Contest ends in one week, on July 24th! Good luck to all!


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153 Responses to “BLD Celebrates One Year : giveaways & an exciting reader poll!”

  1. Two has been a big change for me over the past year so I am not sure how three would be. I’m dubious but not ruling it out entirely…

    Love that Phil & Ted’s stroller, by the way! It would make carting my son and daughter around easier. No fighting over the stroller.

  2. I’m 35 and had my first at 34, I am definitely thinking about when we have our next baby. You have time, don’t feel rushed because of your age.

  3. I didn’t really answer your question about going from two to three. I have heard that it gets a little wild when you add a third.

  4. I’m currently pregnant with our third and went through the same thing (although I already had a son, August and a daughter, Martha). All I can say is that when push came to shove, I knew we’d never look back and say, “We never should have had so-and-so” but there was most certainly a possibility we’d look back and regret not having another child! And with our little girl Hazel due in November, I now don’t know why I ever had a doubt!

    And I am a stay-at-home mommy who write a blog from home too and am a bit worried about the time and craziness of it all. But at the end of the day, I feel confident that I, my husband and my children have more than enough love and attention to give to another child! And you will too if that’s your decision!

    Your top 5 are some great products…but the Swaddle Design products are my favorite! Their generous size and softness can’t be beat!

  5. I have been right there after having 2 boys myself and suddenly finding myself wanting to have a third! That nagging didn’t go away and we now have our girl, who is almost 2 already! Three kids is full to the brim but I wouldn’t have it any other way. And the boys are so great with their sister too. Best of luck in your own decision!
    Oh, and we read the boy/girl baby book just for fun, but it worked! (and worked for lots of other people I know as well.)

  6. Also meant to add that
    i love the swaddle design line, very beautiful!

  7. I know EXACTLY how you feel about considering another one. We also have two boys but since my oldest is just turning two next month, we have some time to consider it. If I do, I want it to me strictly because I want another baby, not because I want a girl. While I know secretly I do want a girl, I would never want to feel disappointed by a boy, especially since I just adore my little guys. I also don’t think we could afford it right now. Two kids in daycare is stretching us as it is so another would be rough. I love the idea of the Phil&Ted strollers because while we bought a beautiful duo stroller, it doesn’t fit in the trunk of our mid-sized car!! I made the mistake of assuming it would and took it out for some nice strolls so I can’t take it back. We have seriously considered a bigger vehicle for it but I’m not sure I can justify it. I’m also a HUGE fan of swaddling. My older son was also swaddled until six months and I’ll probably go that long with my 5 month old, too. Most of my friends just don’t “get” it but I rarely have to get up in the night. Happy Birthday!

  8. I’m also a subscriber!

  9. We just had our third last year, and I simply adore all of my children! We would love another girl and will definitely keep our options open, but right now we are so satisfied and happy. I think spacing is key, so that you can enjoy your children at different stages, but also have them appreciate their siblings.

    I have the hotslings sling for my third baby who should really be an NBA player (he’s so tall). I love it. It was my first sling and its perfect for when he needs that closeness but I need my hands!

  10. My son was born on May 29th and he is our third. It has definitely been an adjustment. My daughter is 2 and besides not getting any sleep and taking care of a toddler, she is having a hard time having a lot of the attention shifting away from her. Sometimes she loves the baby a little too much with her tight hugs and big kisses, and other times she’ll slap him before we can get to her. Getting out of the house by myself is a challenge as well, but my eight year old has been a great help. It definitely is an adjustment, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Wouldn’t it be great to get your little girl. And if you don’t wouldn’t you love another little precious boy?:) So I’d go for it! I would love the Phil and Ted’s! It would be great to be able to put both little ones in a stroller for a trip to the mall and not have to worry about which way my daughter decides to run. But I really believe that I can sleep later in life and these long days are the most beautiful ones I will ever have. Thanks so much!

  11. Happy Birthday! I know that it is definately a hard decision. I have 2 girls and sometimes wonder if I had another if the baby would be a boy and what that would be like. Is it different?
    I wouldn’t worry about your age. Take your time in deciding. I gave birth to my last at 35 and have many friends that are upwards and over 40 having kiddos. We are having babies later in life these days. Whatever you decide, good luck and congrats on celebrating your one year!
    Love the hotslings sling!

  12. First off, I love the Phil and Ted stroller.

    I have 3 girls. We were hoping for a boy for the third, and when I got the amnio (I was 37), I was REALLY mad that it was another girl, but then I realized just how much I love girls. I have friends who have all boys and they feel the same way. Three is difficult, sure, and I recommend spending a little extra on a babysitter for the smallest so that you can spend extra time with the older 2, but it’s really worth it!

  13. We also have two boys. Although there was a bit of yearning for a girls with child number two - it’s not there anymore. Now we just want a third child because as we discovered when our second was about 3 months old, children are cool. We don’t care if the third is going to be a boy or girl. We just want another child because we love children. I’m just starting to wean my second - he’s 13 months and I’m 37 - and I’ve just recently been ‘physically ready’ to start trying to another child. I don’t think you are to the age of being ‘too old’ for a child yet - you are at a fantastic age! If you want three, then you’ll have fun with three! Plus you have great taste in baby products, so baby #3 is going to be your most stylin’ baby!

  14. Michelle Spiess Says:

    I want to have at least three kiddos, but my DH only wants two. I only have 1 sibling, my mom and has 1 sibling, my grandma only had 1 sibling. It seems as if my entire family only produce 2, then done! It makes for smaller, more quaint family get-togethers, but I want to break the mold! :) Oh, and I’m 32, and if all goes well with the miracle of IVF, we will have our second child when I’m 33.

    I love the Hotsling! Such cute designs!

  15. Oh - I forgot two things! Middle child syndrome - well, it doesn’t matter how many children you have…there’s always going to be a syndrome you could label. Only child….youngest/the eternal baby…oldest….middle… I wouldn’t worry about that at all!

    And my fave giveaway is the ‘lets go strolling’! :)

  16. I only have one child myslef and one sibling as well and I know I would have liked more on both fronts. More siblings for me and for my child. Go for it!

  17. i have to agree with Uggamugga.com’s comment–you will never regret having another one! i’m only pregnant with my first, but from what i can imagine, kids change your life so much to the point that you will never go back to not being a mom–so you might as well add more!

    LOVE the receiving blanket! have it bookmarked to buy…

  18. I just had our third baby 8 weeks ago. We weren’t planning on having a third, but obviously didn’t go through motions to prevent another, either! Anyway, I was shocked and was just starting my own business, so I was conflicted about the pregnancy. Once morning sickness set in, I wasn’t feeling too conflicted any more- I wasn’t happy. Once the shock and 24 hour sickness passed, however, I was excitedly preparing and looking forward to all the great stuff about newborns. Sure enough, she’s wonderful and I can’t imagine life without her. My older two girls (yes, three girls!) love her to death and surprise me constantly by really showing little or no signs of resentment. They can’t get enough of her (for now!). Anyway, I say “Go for it!” If you’re thinking and planning and feeling like “maybe,” then you’re already ahead of where I was and I can’t say enough good things about having one more. Not to mention, I think the “bad” stuff about the beginning gets easier with each, probably because you’re just used to it by this point. And any rough patches fly by anyway, because with two others, time just plain flies- rough patch or not!

    I’m a huge fan of swaddling and pouches! …Although my favorite pouch is a Kangaroo Korner adjustable pouch :)

  19. I am a middle child myself. Although I am a textbook case of middle child syndrome, I also believe there are many benefits to being a middle child. I love that I was often placed in the older group orthe younger group depending on the situation…it was like getting the best of both worlds. I also experienced what it is to have a younger and older sibling…only middle children get that experience. So, althought there are feelings of being left out, there are also benefits to being in the middle. So, I wouldn’t worry too much about Alex. I have been interested in getting a hotsling for a couple weeks now. My new baby always wants to be held and the traditional baby holder isn’t working too well…she hates it.

  20. the Ultimate Receiving Blanket should have been around years ago; how often it could have been used!!(my favorite).
    I come from a family of 5 kids and we have 3. It seems that most problems, when kids are small, get worked out over the odd number factor.
    As for will you get your boy/girl that you don’t have- our neighbours wanted a boy and after 4 tries, only girls so far. One never knows.

  21. I have 2 children, a boy and a girl. My husband and I have decided that this is our family. As my youngest nears her first birthday I do find myself occasionally feeling a tiny pull to have another child. I think we might have tried for a third child if we had started having children when I was younger, if my last pregnancy wasn’t so problematic, and if we were better off financially. But we have a great family and are ok with our decision. Try not to worry so much about the birth order stuff or even about being outnumbered. Your heart will eventually lead you to the right decision for your family. My top product is the Phil and Ted’s, I’d love to have one.

  22. Today is my due date with #2, and I am scared out of my mind about what having 2 kids means. I can’t imagine seriously considering 3, even though I am one of 3, and so I konw it is totally doable! Something in my head just knows that 3 is not for me. I would have to say though that if you have a really good support system, the true want for more and the space to handle them, then go for it - why not! As long as you’re not me that is!

  23. Ahh, the age old question, 2 to 3! We acidentally went from 2 to 3 and neither of us really wanted to. BUT, now that he is nearing a year old I am so very very happy we did. Both my husband and I are middle children hence not wanting to go from 2 to 3, but with my middle child the only girl I think it will be fine, plus since we are very concious of it I think that will make a huge difference too. One of the reasons I am so glad we had another one is b/c he looks exactly like his father and acts exactly like his father, the first two are a spitting image of me and my siblings. When he was born my husband exclaimed, finally one that looks like me! That alone was enough to melt my heart. The stroller by phil and ted is my favorite item, we watched and watched them on ebay, but found we had to go with a more budget friendly version we are after all supporting 3 kids now. (And yes we are outnumbered, but I still wouldn’t change it for the world!) Take the time to consider 3, I love seeing the differences in our children, and the similarities. I also love watching my 2 older ones take their brother under their wing! If you do go for that third one, have your 2 older ones decorate some onesies with fabric markers for their new little sibling, I cherish the shirts my kids made, they are so cute! Good luck on your decision, and of course never look back!

  24. Well, we went from 2 to 3 a year ago (I can’t believe my little girl is already 1) and unbelievable but true, I think it’s actually easier than going from 1 to 2. I have a girl 10, a boy 6 and then now a little girl 1. I had the gnawing feeling for about 2 years trying to decide to go or not go for a 3rd one and I’m so happy we decided to go for it. It’s completed our family!! Good luck with your decision, it’s not an easy one.

  25. I think you should do what feels right in your heart. Your the only one who knows whats best for you and your family, so I give my blessing that you will find the right decision.
    I love the hotslings. theyre adorable!
    Great giveaway, thanks so much!

  26. Was I supposed to leave 2 comments? *confused* =)

  27. I don’t have a real answer for you. Going from 1 to 2 was a huge adjustment for me. I defintely want 3 (I want a boy!) I’m not sure when the time will be right.

    I think though that transitioning from 2 to 3 will be easier than 1 to 2, because hey after the first two, what’s one more mouth to feed, mess to clean up, etc!

  28. We would love for you to have a 3rd!! But your still young, and have plently of time ahead of you, if you can’t make up your mind yet:)

  29. I say, if you’re going to have a 3rd you should just go ahead and have a fourth too. Then there’s no (singular) middle child and if you’re going to be outnumbered already, why not? ;)

    (This is coming from a 26 yr old mother of one who wouldn’t mind waiting until she’s 4 or 5 yrs. old before having the next!! Hee hee!)

  30. As a mom of 4 kids soon to be 5, I think it’s definitely harder going from 1 to 2 kids. I love that we have two girls and two boys and our newest baby is a girl. After getting used to having 2 kids, adding more to the family means more laundry, food and more work but also more beautiful children to love and enjoy! I love having 4 kids and one more is even better! I might not get much sleep but they won’t be little forever. I’d say GO for #3 if you really feel it in your heart! Good luck and congrats on the 1 year anniversary!

    **I have been looking for a double stroller so I definitely love the stroller I have heard of it before but never saw pictures until now, pretty cool stroller, it would be so nice to have one!**

  31. My theory has always been that they can’t outnumber us. I am having our second in a couple of weeks and then one of us is getting fixed. I do fear that once my last baby isn’t a baby anymore I might get that itch but I just don’t think financially (3 college tuitions!), emotionally, or physically I could cope. But that is just me.

    I have been shopping for double stroller for months. Everyone raves about the Phil and Ted but it isn’t in our budget. I still haven’t committed to one - I’ve decided to stick with our single stroller and a sling for a couple of months and revisit the issue this fall.

  32. I honestly can’t give you any advice on the matter. I just had my first one. I’ve always wanted 3 though. Of course its going to be tough but it would be triple the love and joy (after they start sleeping through the night, j/k). If your heart is telling you to have a third child, then listen to it. Good luck with your decision. The Phil and Ted looks like a great stroller. Too bad its a bit on the pricey side. I have a sling already but I’m thinking about trying out the hotsling. Hopefully it works out good for me. The swaddle blanket looks great. I love swaddling my daughter but shes a little Houdini. I need to use the little “straight jacket” on her (the blanket with the velcro).

  33. The more, the merrier, I say! I fell pregnant with my daughter 2 months before I turned 37. At the doc’s office you are officially known as a MAMA (Mother of Advanced Maternal Age) if you are pregnant over 35 (I’m almost positive it’s 35). I had no problems with conception or with being pregnant; I felt and still feel young and energetic and I’m ready to try for a second soon!) I guess my point is, you really don’t need to be in a big hurry, you have heaps of time. Enjoy the two you have and go for #3 when you’re positive that’s what you want to do:)
    As for your top 5 - excellent choices, all of them! The Ultimate Receiving Blanket sounds like it was a godsend for you, but I have to say that every time I see someone with a Phil and Ted stroller, I am eaten up with envy. Seriously, I find it impossible to control the green monster rising up inside me, these strollers are fab!

  34. As for adding another one, I am not sure what to say. I am a middle child, though, and I loved it, but it was tough at times.

    As for your top 5 - I am impressed with all of them! I think my favorite is the Bebe au Lait.

  35. Thanks for a great website!! I hope you have continued success.

  36. First off love the Phil and ted stroller, wish we had one. Maybe after the next one.
    We only have one, a 6 month old little boy and we are going to go for number 2. But I may be with you, I really want a little girl so if she doesn’t come next, i may be asking you for advice!

  37. I like the number three…I just had my first baby but for me, three kids would be an ideal number. If you truly want a third child, I say go for it. I also agree with what some other posters said about you having time. At 30, there’s still plenty of time to think about having another baby. As to whether it’s a boy or a girl, your chances would still be fifty-fifty. There are supposed to be ways that you can increase the chance of having one over the other. My friend tried to explain it to me once but it seemed complicated.
    Out of the top 5, the Phil & Ted’s would be my favourite. We have the P&T Vibe and love it!

  38. Alice Hansen Says:

    I’m one of three and I loved it - but you’ll make the right decision for you. Congratulations on the website anniversary! Thanks for the giveaway!

  39. i dont have any children yet but coming from a big family, remember than life got a little more complicated when my younger siblings were born, but not in a bad way. We all had to adjust.

    I like the babe au lait cover

  40. Hello! Congratulations on a successful first year! I wish you many more happy and healthy years. The decision to have a third child is definitely up to you and your family! I have always believed in two children, one to replace each parent. The world is so full of people and children who desperately need homes. I got married at age 30 ( my husband is 7 years younger ) and we had our first son when I was 32 and our second son when I was 35/36. We were thrilled to have two healthy sons. When people would ask me if I was going to try for a girl, I use to get very upset!!!!! I know I wouldn’t go from 2-3, hoping for a girl! Only if you want a third child or not. I wish you the best. My favorite item in your giveaway thus far, is the “Ultimate Receiving Blanket!”
    Thanks for a fantastic giveaway drawing. Cindi (I am a newsletter subscriber)! :)

  41. I think maybe it is just your biological clock ticking. You need to ignore that little thing, and really think this out! A very important decision to make, and it shouldn’t be made because your body is saying “have more, have more!” Think with your mind and heart and really have a talk with your partner about it. Good luck!

    My favorite product is the Ultimate Receiving Blanket. Thanks!

  42. I only have 1 child right now. However, I am the youngest of 3 children and I think 3 is a good number. If one sibling isn’t getting along with another there is still always one to play with :)

    My favorite top 5 is the phil and teds. love the toddler seat!

    I am also a subscriber!

  43. Gift certificate to let’s get strolling is my fave prize; love the design of the double stroller. I have 3 little girls ages 5,3,and 1. Three is a lot of fun. But as for getting a girl the third time around, it’s only a 50/50 chance:)
    jceko77@yahoo.com

  44. Well, being that I only have 2 children that are almost 8 years apart in age, I don’t know if I’m one to ask. Personally, I’d love to have more children…so Go For It!! The more the merrier, right? On the other hand, everything is so darn expensive, I’m finding that out with the baby…wowza!! What a difference 8 years can make! Whatever you decide, good luck!

    My favorite top 5 is the baby star burp cloth. Soooooo handy!

    seeryusfam@msn.com

  45. Elisabeth A Saliani Says:

    I can’t even imagine going from one to two right now, but I have heard that two to three is easier than one to two. Good luck whatever you decide! Love those burp cloths by the way…

  46. I think the first 3 months after having a baby are the toughest no matter how many you have and then you (and everyone else) adjust and things fall into place! I have 3 kids and am due in Oct with #4 and I am nervous about the adjustment but less so then I was before my 3rd was born. I did “get my girl” last time after the 2 boys and now I’m getting another girl! 4 will be it for us since they will all be 2 yrs apart and 2 boys followed by 2 girls seem perfect for us. I’ll be 33 right before this baby is born, its not so old so don’t obsess over your age at 30!!!
    My favorite is the Hotsling, I have one now but its old stained and I’d love to win a new one! Actually I used it today (even with my big belly) when I was carrying my sleeping daughter into the Dr office.

  47. You can totally do it! Im only on my 2nd, but have tons of friends with 3+. They all say it is not that different from 2. I think one to two is the hardest jump. Good luck with your decision–not a easy one. My favorite is the swaddle blanket. Thanks!

  48. hmmmmmmm first of all happy b-day to babyluxe!!! I have loved reading it, and since I had my first “Caleb” in november it has been fun and VERY helpful. I love “swaddle designs”. my sister in law Sarah (who happens to be the founder of babyluxe)gave it to me at my shower. It is still till this day (8 months later) Calebs favorite blanket. ok on your poll question……I say go for it. Between you and me we have three boys why not try and get your sweet girl. we may be trying for a second in a few months so come on join me!!! But as Colin and Alex’s aunt I do not know if I could babysit all three plus my two!!!! Kidding - would love to be an aunt again. CONGRATS

  49. Ok.. .Mom of six here chiming in with my opinion.

    Going from 2 to 3 was the hardest. Not horrible, but I definately felt the difference! I only have two hands, and my last two were a year apart in age, so that made things a little tougher.

    I think that wanting more kids is a wonderful thing, however I am a bit biased in my words. No matter what you have, it would be so much fun for you. Sitting around watching my oldest three who are teenagers is so much fun! It’s worth it.. I promise! BTW, out of my last three, #5 and #6 are also a year apart in age. I’m not sure what I was thinking to do it twice.

    My daughters are also 18 months and 6 months, we have kids very close in age!

    As for those items, I want one of those strollers so bad, they look amazing and alot easier than the beast I have!

  50. All children are blessings, listen to your inner voice.

  51. My husband and I think 3 is the perfect number, so no, I don’t think you’re crazy! However, don’t do it to get a particular sex! My SIL tried that and ended up with 5 boys, and my BIL ended up with 4 girls with the fifth being his boy. Now that’s insanity! Anyways, I’d love the nursing cover! That is on my must have list when we have our first!

  52. Louise Marie Says:

    As a nanny, i can tell you that things get a whole lot more complicated with three kids. That doesn’t mean it’s not fun and amazing, though. Generous age differences (at least two years) help a lot and if you already have two kids, they already are used to sharing your attention, so for them the adjustment wouldn’t be terrible.

    That stroller is awesome– so high tech!

  53. We Love our hooter hider.

    I think if you really want three, you should go for it. I know a mom of twins who just had her third, and she’s fine. However, think about how disappointed you’ll be if it’s not a girl….because the chances are 50/50!

  54. Oh! I’ve been eyeing those Phil&Ted buggies - glad to hear the high marks from you. As for the hooter hider, I love mine! It’s so great!

  55. Emily Bickell Says:

    You know what to expect… it’s a big commitment of course, but also a heck of a lot of joy! Go with your instincts…Good luck with your decision!

    Love the look of the HotSling, by the way. I think those are brilliant - keeps baby safe and close!

  56. My thoughts on having a third - I’m having one, too, so definitely go for it! But seriously, so many older moms have told me they wished they had more but no one told me they wished they had less. I think it will be a true blessing. :) My favorite product of the 5 is the ultimate swaddling blanket because I’ve been eyeing it for some time and will probably buy it for baby #3, if I don’t win. Hehe.

  57. Michelle T Says:

    I have 2 boys…and maybe one day we’ll have 3. But isn’t the odds of having another boy like 80%? So I’m scared. I really would want to have a girl to sorta even things out. I think 3 is going to be wild…When my older one goes to school, and it’s just me and the little one (18 months), I think, boy, this is easy. With the two of them, I’m pretty much go go go all day long. So I bet with three….it’ll pretty much be the same. For me, I want to wait until the younger one is 4, (the older would be 6.5) and then they’d actually be able to help me…I hope.

    I love hotslings. Well, slings in general. They are super useful and convenient. For longer treks and heavier babies though, I prefer the ergo. However, the sling is indespensible b/c it’s so compact!

  58. I’d Love a hotsling and a hooter hider for my next little one!

  59. Our 3rd just turned 1 this week!!! I have 2 girls and my last is a boy. I would have been happy with any mix but I’m glad we have boy AND girls. I’m 39, don’t worry about your age. I’d like to say it’s smooth sailing but I feel like I don’t have enough hands sometimes. I should say that my 3 are under the age of 4 (4,3,1). That said, it’s wonderful and if we could manage 4, I would love it.

    Oh, I feel like i’ve tried or read about all the baby products listed at some point or another in my mommyhood. They are all great. Thanks for the cool giveaway.

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  60. Well, I only have one, but I think that if there’s a small voice that tells you to have another you should listen closely. That’s most most valuable voice of all!

    I love the stroller and with a second on the way, we’ll need it!

    thanks for the great giveaways.

  61. My third is almost 3 months and already I couldn’t imagine life without him. He’s an easygoing, loving baby and I’ve discovered myself as a mother in a way I didn’t with the other 2. We weren’t sure about number 3, but I’m so glad we took the plunge (I’m undecided about another, but not my DH!). As for getting a girl, I don’t know because I have boy, girl, boy. As for going crazy, all the families I know with 3, the third child is easy going and easier than the other two. So that helps with the sanity!

    As for the top 5 products, I love the Hotsling. Truthfully, I wouldn’t make it through the day without using some type of sling. It keeps the baby happy while we get out to the library, the pool, playgroups, etc. to keep the “big kids” happy. Happy kids, happy momma. It certainly beats spending the day referreeing!

  62. I can’t really answer this question with much expertise. So far we only have one baby and want one or 2 more. So in a little over a year, I will be in the same place you are now. I have always wanted 3 kids but now that I know how time-consuming and wonderful :-) motherhood is, I often consider just having two. Sorry, I am no help at all. As for the baby products- I love the hotsling! It was a lifesaver and I think I will use it even more when we have our second baby. I wish she still fit in it!

  63. Wow! Well, I’m 30 and I’ll be 31 in November. I’m also about to try for baby #3. I have an almost 3 year old and an almost 1 year old. Both BOYS! Just like you! So, I say go for it! I am. You’ll never be sorry you had another baby. You’ll love it, be it another boy, or a little girl. And, if you get worried about middle-child syndrome, you can always have another!! :)

    I have and Ultimate Swaddle blanket, and it is awesome. I also have a Hooter Hider that I love. And, I have given some BabyStar items as gifts. I think my fave sanity saver is the Swaddle Blanket. I couldn’t live without my Hooter Hider, though. And the BabyStar stuff is just SO fun!

  64. Jen (Jen516) Says:

    Hi Sarah! It’s Jen from MWS! You know I am in the same boat as you with 2 boys and considering #3. I think that if you are on the fence, you should go for it. Though I don’t need you need to feel rushed — 30 is very young and I know plenty of people who had their FIRST kids well after 30. I think you should do it before 34 so that you don’t need to go through any high-risk screening. (I know you would do it way before then anyway, but that age is more of a “cut off” for me). I am 32 and I think I may want to go for #3 when Jonah is 2, which is a year from now. I will be 33 then, and would have baby #3 when I am turning 34. Just before all of the high risk stuff. For me, I really want to be able to send Jonah to school a couple hours each week so I have time with the baby, and I think that makes things less hectic.

    Also, I definitely will be using the book, as well as my Genselect kit. (Check them out — I reviewed them on MWS and maybe they would let you try it out too! Contact Doc!) They have a specific kit for girls and have a guarantee.

    :) Jen

  65. No need to include me in the giveaway…I just wanted to drop by and say Congrats on one year! Thanks also for your web designer referral. I am 31 and getting geared up to try for number 2 only. That’s daunting in itself b/c I have it pretty great with one :)

  66. I just shared it via facebook.

  67. Not sure about your middle child syndrome worries. I’m a middle child and turned out just fine. (well.._I_ think I’m fine… ;) I hope the hotsling folks come thru, I would love one of those as my baby is just to the age where she doesn’t want to ever be put down…

  68. Whoops, I hit “submit” too soon.

    As for the chance of a girl, I want to point out that I have several friends who kept trying for the opposite sex only to either never have them or not have them until 4 or 5 kids later. So please be careful with that one.

    I understand what you mean about wanting to be done near 30. We’re in the same boat. Well, my husband is older than me, but I thought I’d be done just before 30. Well, it didn’t quite work out that way, but it won’t be too far off.

    As for favorites, oh my goodness, that stroller with a toddler seat. I’ve never seen that before. I had a double stroller for our twins, but got rid of it once they outgrew it. I don’t like double strollers. That Phil and Ted Sport Buggy, though is WONDERFUL. The colors are great too. The price is WAY out of my reach, but I want one so badly. What a fabulous idea!

  69. I come from a family of four kids - I’m the oldest - and I absolutely LOVE it! I hope and pray to have a big family of my own, but right now we’re dealing with infertility (I just had some surgery today!). So, anyway, I can’t tell you as a mom, but as a kid from a big family, it’s the best. So much fun, and the very BEST friends. Best wishes on whatever you decide!

  70. Sorry, I was confused, I thought I was supposed to comment about my favorite “top five” on another post about that item. Maybe you can delete my first comment so I don’t have the double comments? Like I said….surgery today….the drugs must be messing with my head! :) So…

    I come from a family of four kids - I’m the oldest - and I absolutely LOVE it! I hope and pray to have a big family of my own, but right now we’re dealing with infertility (I just had some surgery today!). So, anyway, I can’t tell you as a mom, but as a kid from a big family, it’s the best. So much fun, and the very BEST friends. Best wishes on whatever you decide!

    My favorite product is the Hotslings. I think it’s so wonderful to wear a baby! I also think swaddling sounds soo cozy!

    Thanks so much!

  71. I would think it might be slightly more difficult having more children than adults but not sure. I grew up in a house with 3 children and don’t remember any problems besides the normal sibling stuff.

    I love the hotslings and the phil and ted stroller. What great ways to carry/transport children.

  72. Congratulations on the year anniversary Sarah! Good for you, its very impressive that you work part-time, are the founder of this blog AND have a paper business AND are a mother of 2 and a wonderful wife :-) I’m impressed! I have no advice for you about going for number 3. As you know, I only have one little boy thus far. But common sense would tell me that YOU my friend seem more than capable of handling life with a 3rd child. I love all this trendy baby stuff! I could just spend all day “ooohhing and awwwwing” the stuff is so fantastic. I think Baby Star make some awesome products and I would have loved to wrap Nicholas in those yummy swaddler blankets! I’m a subscriber and do enjoy reading this page and looking through all the links! Thanks.

  73. Gosh, I hope the middle child syndrome is avoidable. We may have a fourth, just to be on the safe side. (Number 3 is in the oven!) I don’t want my second son to feel left out or unspecial. On the other hand, I’d like my body back eventually. By the time I wean the next one, I’ll have spent >6 years with another little person physically dependent on my body in some way. I’m getting too old for this!

    My favorite product is definitely the Hotslings. Baby-wearing rocks.

  74. Gina Stratos Says:

    I have three kids and for me it’s the right number. Each addition was different. Some things were more challenging while other things seemed easier (or maybe just less difficult than I had remembered). I think that you certainly have to balance finances and health risks and just the overall family dynamic when considering whether or not to have another child. As for the great products listed, I love the strollers!
    gkstratos@ yahoo.com

  75. Gina Stratos Says:

    Also a subscriber. (Sorry, didn’t know if I was to note it in a separate comment)
    gkstratos@ yahoo.com

  76. I only have one, and we’re hoping for more. I say GO FOR IT! I mean, how else are you going to try these great products! I can’t wait to get a Phil and Teds!

  77. Your age is so not an issue, medically. But it is a super hard decision. We’re on the fence about if/when to go for #2, so I can understand your ambivalence. Everyone has told me that #2 is the hardest and adding a third or more is not that much more.

    Good luck and happy birthday!

    If we do go for #2, we’re gonna need that Phil & Ted stroller!

  78. Well, I had 2 boys, went for a 3rd, hoping for a girl, but got a 3rd boy. But now I couldn’t be happier. To be honest, boys are much easier than girls!!!!! I’d take 3 boys over 3 girls any day!! But I can’t lie, that 3rd kid does seem to shake it up!! I noticed that having 2 kids was WAY WAY easier than having 3! And I do notice my middle son having the typical “middle” son issue. My advice is always, if you are having doubts, that’s a reason enough to put a hold on it!! And about the top 5 products, they are awesome!! I love the baby sling!! It’s different than any other sling I’ve ever seen!

  79. Not to worry you, but I do believe in even numbers. I’ve heard and seen sooooo many horor stories about 3 (the middle child) etc… As for myself I’m worried about having number 2. I was an only child and my husband could tell you some doosies about growing up with two? The only good advice I can give you is that every environment is different how you raise your third will be different from the next. Just remember don’t show favortisim with your children that can really damage a child. Good Luck having a girl.

  80. How funny! I am due with my third in October. The past two days I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed with the thought of having 3 kids!! Don’t get me wrong, I am really excited for her to come join our family, but I am a little concerned how easily we will all be with the transition. As for having a girl…I got lucky. My first was a boy and my second was a girl. Wishing you luck for a girl!!!

  81. OOPS!! Got too carried away thinking about having 3 kids that I forgot to tell you my favorite of the top 5. I love the hotsling.

  82. I am due with my second now but have always wanted three! From what I have seen, as long as you space them, it should be tons of fun. Lot more work but a lot more fun too. Once the kids are at an age where they can take care of the small things themselves it will be a lot easier on the parents.
    Also my husband is the middle child and I totally believe that the syndrome doesnt hold true everywhere. Again if the children are spaced well and the lines of communication are open between the parents and the child, it should all be fine.
    I sure hope to have three some day…I am 31 already tho!!!

    I do love the hotsling. Have been craving one for a while.

  83. Hi Miss Sarah!

    First of all Happyy Babyluxe Congrats….I’m so thrilled for your success and wish you many more blogging birthdays! :)

    I say go for it! How can you go wrong with one more little angel to hug in the morning….:) Don’t feel the age pressure just yet, youngling, you’re ONLY 30!!!!! :)

    As for my favorite of the Top 5……..hands down the Hooter Hider — aka Bebe Au Lait. I can’t even count the number of times I received compliments on it and even found myself at Disneyland a few times chatting it up with whomever was sitting near me while BF and they were shocked and surprised to see a little head pop out as they had NO IDEA that’s what I was doing. LOVE IT!!!

  84. I have two girls and my plan is to stay that way. Once and a while I think of a third but I know 2 is the right number for our family. My fave prize is the the blanket

  85. Well, we’re working on #1, so I can only tell you from my own childhood perspective, as we have 4 siblings in my family (me being the oldest). I LOVED growing up with a large family - with so many activities, different personalities, etc. I think we are better people for knowing each other and having survived each other! We’re a very tight family, and hang-out/talk to each other more than any other friends. I have a few friends that only had 1 sibling, and it doesnt always turn out well. I think when they only have each other to focus on, it can turn ugly- for years. I think with more kids, you can take a break from one that’s annoying you and hang out with a different sibling, when needed.

    As for the middle child syndrome, my brother and sister are some of the most amazing people I know. They’re smart, funny, and very laid-back. Typical middles! I’m the responsible one, and my youngest sister is the crazy one.

    However, I must warn you, if you are mostly having #3 to try for a girl, it can backfire on you! My friend went for the girl on #3, and ended up with twin boys. Yikes!

    Also, I LOVE babystar! They’re currently having their summer/sample sale and it’s awesome… I bought a complete crib set for $100. Score. Their products are well made, modern and comfortable/easy on baby.

    Congratulations on your blogiversary. I’m sure you will have a full and happy life/family, no matter what you decide on #3. Good luck!

    * I’m also a subscriber, for the bonus entry. Thanks!

  86. Laurel Fanning Says:

    I am expecting my second in August and would LOVE to have three but for medical reasons, I cannot so I am hoping to adopt a third!
    I am sure your children will enjoy being a “threesome” as I grew up as a middle child and loved it!!! Good luck!
    As far as the giveaway, I love them all and I especially love the nursing cover as I am hoping to BF this time (had difficulty last time but I am determined:)
    Thanks for the opportunity!

  87. I have just had my first 3 months ago and don’t know what I would do without her. Obviously I am not thinking about having number 2 or 3 yet, however my cousin has 7 now. If she can do it and you really want and can comfortably afford number three then go for it. The middle child thing can go either way. I know some parents that swear you have to have kids in even numbers because of the problems they are having with the middle child syndrome, others I know don’t have any problems with their middle child. Good luck!

  88. I think the jump from 2 to 3 is not as drastic as the jump from 1 to 2 (and not even close to the jump from 0 to 1 child!). But you are still quite young, honestly…I wouldn’t rush into anything too quickly.

    And as a middle child…I wouldn’t worry about the “middle child syndrome.” It is certainly not inevitable!

  89. I just found your blog today and love it…will definately be back!!

  90. Our first is almost a year old, so we’re beginning to think about #2. There are times when I feel ready, then other moments when I think, “how in the world could I do this with another child?” When it’s right, I guess you just know. Then you figure out the details as they unfold.

    My favorite item from your top 5 is definitely the Bebe au Lait. I’m still nursing (and plan to for some time), and couldn’t imagine going out in public without it.

  91. I have three but my first two are twins so the leap wasn’t that bad at all. I say go for it, ther eis always room for another baby!
    The sling is an amazing thing. Easy to use, confortable for both me and baby and keeps my hands free for the other 2!

  92. I have 2 girls right now and wonder if I could have a third. All my friends that have 3 say that it isn’t too bad. Going from one child to 2 is the hardest and having 3 isn’t so bad. I guess it’s all what you make of it. I also love the Bebe Au Lait. Ingenious.

  93. I’m expecting our 2nd little boy in Oct. and I have a feeling that anymore children that we will have will most likely be boys (that is all we have in our entire family!). It’s hard because I grew up with just a brother so I have no idea what it would be like have 3 or more and how that will affect each child. My friends are all currently pregnant with their 3rd child so I guess we’ll see what they say it’s like. I’m nervous just to have my second! Ahh! As for the giveaway, the ultimate receiving blanket looks really cool and I’d love to own one!

  94. Maggie Smith Says:

    I say that you should take the leap from 2 to 3. You may get that girl you have been wanting! On the other hand, having another brother for the boys isn’t a bad thing either!!! I love your blog and I really hope to win one of your fabulous prizes. I have a 4 month old son and we are going to try for one more, boy or girl, and then we are done!

  95. My favorite “top 5″ is the Hotsling- I loved wearing my son!

    Personally I think that 2 is the perfect number. You and your partner can each take one, you all fit comfortably in a car, and can ride roller coasters together. Also, if you guys are not 100% sure, wait!

  96. I always wanted three…I come from a small family and I always dreamed of having lots of kids but thought three was the perfect amount! I don’t know if I will get to three or not…I started a bit late and just have one now…he’s 20 months. I say go for it! Kids are wonderful and although some days will be more challenging than others, those sweet kisses and “I love you’s” will make it all better!

  97. You’re musing about the same thing I am! I wasn’t as nervous about going from 1 to 2 as I am going from 2 to 3…I guess because I can’t just have them all in a stroller if need be (even though my older son usually walks). But I realized that any transition is hard, it’s great for the kids to have people to play with at all times, and I think they will all be close. I’m due any day now with number 3, and I think my 3 year old is going to love to help out with the baby, as I see he takes good care (at times ;)) of his 18 month brother…so I will have an extra pair of hands, if only to bring me a diaper or what not. I don’t only have babies anymore; I have a “big boy” who will be mommy’s helper :)
    The Phil and Ted’s stroller by far is the easiest double to push, and really an ingenious idea :)

  98. We have four :-) Going from 2-3 was a HUGE difference but once you have three you can handle any number. And as for gender, I have three boys (1,2 and 3) and we were SHOCKED when we found out number 4 was a GIRL! I still can’t believe we have a daughter and she’s nine months old!

  99. It’s a tough transition, but if you feel like three is what you should have, relax and go for it.
    Great giveaway! Count me in. bebemiqui82(at)yahoo(dot)com

  100. I never regretted going from 2 to 3, even though I did not choose it. It was quite the shock for us! I think 3 kids really makes things so much more fun, and even though it does get chaotic, you will love it!
    It doesn’t get any worse than 3, either, so you may as well keep going, I say! I’m hoping for #8 to be on the way soon, and a double blessing of twins would thrill me!
    It would also justify my desire for that fabulous double stroller! But I really want the sling.

  101. Number three is on his or her way for me, and it really just came down to the fact that we felt like we should share our love with another! I’ve heard it’s really hard with three, but I’m ready for the challenge. We’ll see what happens!

    I also love that double stroller, but the nursing cover is something I wish I had with the first two!

  102. I only have two babies right now, but I come from a family of 6 and I honestly think “the more the merrier”! I think no matter if you’re the oldest, youngest or in the middle there are always things that “suck” about being where you are, but in the end…it’s funner in a big family :)

    I LOVE the E3 stroller…I wish I could afford one :( But I have used the Bebe Au Lait nursing cover and that thing was a lifesaver when I was nursing! Waaaay better than the other nursing covers and shawls I tried!

  103. I only have 1, so I can comment on going from 2 to 3 children. We are trying for number 2 now and I already wonder if there is “room” for another baby. DS is very attention craving and the star anywhere we go. So I’m not sure if he will have a hard time adjusting to a new baby (but he does seem to love babies). I’d say that if your inner voice is whispering one more, and your partner agrees, you should go for it. As far as “middle child” syndrome…I’d say that you are already aware that this could be an issue, and could take measures to avoid the middle child feeling left out. Playing to Alex’s strengths and doing things that he enjoys…giving him a bit of extra attention. You seem to be tuned in to your children’s needs, so I’d say go for it.
    I’m glad that you asked this question; it made me think and I’ve enjoyed reading other’s answers!

    I like the Phil and Ted sport buggy! I wanted one for DS but alas, money is not exactly falling out of the sky right now ;-) I was thinking that this stroller would be a great way to start with one stroller for one child, and add on for the second baby. I wish more stroller designers did this!

  104. I forgot to add something. As for the girl….You could always adopt a little girl, or try for one, and adopt your 4th child (If you still want more children after the 3rd). That’s something that we are considering in the future.

  105. christina simonton Says:

    Great blog! My top product.. nursing cover! Two words… life saver!!!

  106. I’d say go for the 3rd baby. I grew up in a family of 4, and I love having my siblings around. I only have one baby myself, but I know I want a bigger family. Children are truly blessings from God.

    My favorite product is the BeBe Au Lait..I used it all the time! MY favorite story is one time when using it, my friend’s mother came over to see what I was doing and looked right into the hole, because she had NO idea I was nursing! I always wear funky clothing so she thought it was just a new fashion statement!

    I love your blog :)

  107. Well, I went from 1 to 3 with the birth of my identical twin girls. It was quite a shock. I’m not sure how much different it would be to go from 2 to 3 but I think ultimately it would be wonderful. Just remember that you do not regret the birth of your other two and you would not regret the birth of a third.

    I love the Phil and Ted stroller. It would be a great replacement for our double stroller that in less than a year is beat up and stained.

    Thanks for the giveaway!

  108. Love the Phil & Teds! it’s on our registry for when our new little jellybean joins big sister who will be 3 1/2.

    I have heard that going from 2 to 3 is easier than going from 0-1 or 1-2. I’m so nervous about going from 1-2.

    try the Shettles method-it gave us our girl!

  109. hello. love your blog. I think if you are feeling that tug to even consider three and wondering what it’ll be like, I only feel like it will get stronger. You’ll always wonder if the next baby would have been a girl, or how your family would have been with three. I say go for it and never regret not having tried. :P

    I would say that the best baby gear for me was the Ergo baby carrier. I love how it doesn’t hurt my back or shoulders and allows my baby to be close to me. She loved it too!

    I just subscribed to your blog (not sure why I didn’t earlier). I guess I have 2 entries :)

  110. Oops, I guess I am bad at following directions because you asked me to pick my favorite “top 5 pick” :P Definitely the P&T stroller is my top pick. Looks like a single but actually 2. With my #2 on the horizon it would be great. My second is the be be au lait cover! so chic and nice!

  111. I have 1. But, we’d like to adopt at least 2. Still debating whether or not I want to endure another pregnancy/post-partum. But, I definitely don’t want Calvin to grow up without siblings. I think 3 is just about perfect!

    I’d love a phil&ted’s double. like you said, there are many doubles out there…but i’ve just heard of many accidents OR they’re so friggin’ wide that you can’t even make it down the sidewalk with ‘em.

  112. I don’t think I have much to add. We’ve decided on one. Whatever your decision, I know your kids will all be loved, they’ll be fine either way.

  113. I just had my second 5 weeks ago and we are still adjusting. I am from a big family and would like to have a big family also. I just heard that when you have your second the chances of boy are girl are not 50/50 but 75/25. If you had a boy first 75% chance of having another boy. Worked with me. I don’t know how this effects the third, fourth, etc…Good Luck.

  114. To answer the questions: We are preggo with my 3rd child but my 1st child isn’t with us full time (ex hubby joint custody) so I feel as if I’m basically going from 1 to 2 . especially when my 2nd child is a bit clingy and he’ll only be 18 months when our daughter is due in September! I worry more about my middle child because he can be quite emotional and of course is “The baby” until Helana arrives… we are trying to make the transition as smooth as possible…
    and I believe the only way I’d ever have a girl was to be with my current hubby, my ex seemed to only produce boys! LOL

    My top pics are the ultimate receiving blankie , I’ve heard great things about the double strollers by P&T as well so if one of those were up for grabs I’d be in Heaven, especially with 2 lil ones at home!

    phillipsonlygirl at gmail dot com

  115. Going from two to three is really the million dollar question. As for how to handle three kids when there are only two of you…we had friends once with three young and ACTIVE boys. We went to a pizza/arcade place with them and their kids scattered everywhere. I asked them how they did it…as my own little boy stood quietly by my side. They said they split up, manned the exits, and just let them go, since they couldn’t be with all of them at all times. It worked for them and the kids seemed just fine. Outside of that, I have no other real wisdom to share in regards to having three, but if you choose to have another, expect the love in your home to triple!

    My favourite product is the Ultimate Receiving Blanket.

  116. I just turned 30 and am pregnant with my first. Don’t I ever wish I had the dilemma of having my third right now or not. It’s gotta be worth any “downsides.”

    Love the bebe au lait. Going to have his dad staying in my house for the first time a few months after baby is born, and um, yeah.

  117. Dianna K. Ball Says:

    Hmm - interesting. I have just one and have said, steadfastly, that I do NOT want another. Lately, it’s been less of an “absolutely not” and more of a “Probably not.”

    But I know for sure that I do NOT want three. Then you’ve gone from man-to-man defense, as my dear brother-in-law says, to zone. Plus, I really do think there’s that middle child syndrome. Something just gets a little lost there. They’re fine - absolutely fine - but something gives…

    Just my two cents. Great giveaway!

  118. I’m definitely not to the “shall we add a third?” yet because I only had our first (a daughter, Jaedyn) two months ago. lol Immediately after she was born I said to my husband “We’re NEVER doing this again!” but now that I’m seeing how wonderful the whole experience is I’m wondering… :-) I do want a second for sure, sometime down the road. Thanks for the contest, I’d love to win something! I had to laugh at the “perfect burp cloth” because I’m going through little receiving blankets that are too thin to catch all that spit up right now… lol I had no idea there would be so much!

  119. I subscribed to your blog! :-) Forgot to say that I love the hotslings and the strollers!

  120. Claudine Eng Says:

    At 42, I just had my 3rd child 3 months ago, our first girl. I definitely feel like its more difficult physically, but I feel so blessed to have her and my entire family is crazy about her. I have 6 and 4 year old boys and they truly love her and always want to help out with her. What we’re trying to do is give the boys jobs with regard to her care so they feel included (we cloth diaper, so they enjoy helping me clean and put away the diapers) and get a sense of responsibility. I’ve always wanted 3 kids and while we’re outnumbered all we can do is our best and hope for the best!

    With regards to the top 5 I couldn’t live without my hotsling but even though I don’t have the Phil and Ted’s stroller (got a Combi double when #2 was born) I have always been really intrigued by their unique take on the double stroller. Even though my boys are 4 and 6 I find that they still want to take a break every now and then and sit and relax and enjoy a ride.

  121. I found going from 2 to 3 a tough transition… but I DID get my girl! My 2 sons actually adjusted pretty well to their new baby sister, although my younger son found going from baby to middle pretty tough. I just noticed that I used to have a hand per kid… now I only have two hands and three kids!

    And as for the top 5- I am all about the sling!

  122. for some reason my info didn’t show up but that is my post directly above that starts “I found going from 2 to 3 a tough transition…”

    sorry!

  123. I don’t have any hands on advice for you going from 2 to 3…I’m just getting ready to go from 1 to 2 and the thought scares me a little…I have heard that going from 1 to 2 is easy but that 2 to 3 isn’t as easy. As far as getting your girl…well that’s in God’s hands.

    Hard to choose a favorite product…since I am expecting my 2nd the gift certficate to Let’s Go Strolling would be very useful as would the Hotsling…guess I would choose the Let’s Go Strolling gift certificate.

    I’m a subscriber

    gratefulsoul at hotmail.com

  124. I only have 1 right now, but we’re thinking 3 is our magic number. Hubby is worried about going from a man-to-man to zone defense (basketball analogy). We’ll cross that bridge when we get there. Although if I end up with 2 boys, I’d definitely try the Shettles method to increase odds of a girl.

    I definitely dreading the double stroller decision, although I’ve heard a number of great things about the Phil & Teds.

  125. Well- the one bad thing about three is that two can gang up on the other one. I’ve heard though that going from two to three really doesnt seem that hard as the hardest transition is one to two

    I love my hotsling- so handy to carry in the diaper bag!

  126. no advice from going to two to three as we are working on the one to two transition!!

    Love phil and teds- so awesome for running

  127. Two to three is a tough transition — we did it because we had the (oops) third one in January. So far the boys (4 & 2) are helpful and can play by themselves — and the girl (#3) is a real doll — sleeping through the night, eating well, etc. The hardest things? Getting everyone out of the house (it’s SO much easier just to stay at home), meals when EVERYONE HAS TO EAT RIGHT NOW, and being outnumbered. It all works out in the end, though.

    As far as your favorite things — I love my sling. It’s the only way to keep DD happy in the evenings. I don’t have a Hotsling, but I bet it’s really great!

  128. Happy Birthday BLD! I have two, and always said only two, but the little voice is there for me too. I say go for it, if you have that little bit of wonder, you may regret not. As far as my favorite, I love the stroller.

  129. I have two little boys as well and am really hoping my next is a girl. Although I am far from being ready for baby #3! I think you’ll know when it’s right. Try not to feel pressure from other people and just go with how you feel.

    As far as the favs…I LOVE my hotsling and I would LOVE to win the swaddling blanket. My babies have never had a luxury like that!

  130. what would my sister think of it?

  131. I say go from 2 to 3! Give it a try you just may get that lil girl you so desire!! God gives us the desires of our hearts. Pour out your heart to Him and let Him know! It’s all in His hands.

    I would like to win any of the gifts mentioned! That would be wonderful! If I had to choose one though–the Hotsling sounds pretty fab!

  132. I’m also a Subscriber!

  133. Dugg ya!! ;)

  134. I have 2 little boys and just had a little girl. GO FOR IT!!! I can’t imagine life without all 3 of my kiddos!

  135. I love your stuff. Those receiving blankets are to die for!!!

  136. I think 3 is a good number. I was one of 3. And 31 isn’t too old to have a baby. I just started having kids and plan on having more.

    I love all of your top 5. To pick one is really hard. I am really loving that Phil and Ted stroller. I am pregnant with number 2 and was just talking to my husband about what we’re going to do about a stroller.

  137. I grew up in a family of 3, and looking back, I love the idea of 3 kids. There was always someone to play with and things to do. Sure we fought occasionally, but we grew out of that pretty quick and now are all best of friends. I think you all will be just fine with 3!

    I love Phil & Ted’s Sport Buggy! Although I only have 1 little one of my own, I have my nieces and nephew quite often, and it would be great to be able to put 2 into a stroller!
    Thanks for the giveaway! I’m a subscriber as well!

  138. I think I may be able to pontificate on this subject more accurately after my first arrives in December! However, if you are feeling the itch and think one more little nugget would round out your crew, then maybe something inside is trying to tell you that you should do it. I’m 30, just starting, and already feeling overwhelmed and a little terrified.

    On the products you reviewed, I am really feeling that I will be a “sling mom” and have also done extensive research on the Hotsling. A lot of my mom friends seem to like this one and the Ergo sling. Maybe I’ll win and I’ll get a chance at first-hand experience.

  139. Well, I am not a mother (yet), but as a child of a 3-child family, I would have to say that there are definitely pros and cons. I enjoyed having more than one option when it came to choosing playmates, but there is definitely something to be said about the “middle child syndrome.” My hubby and I are hoping for an even number (either 2 or 4, preferably 4), but that is just our preference.

    All of your top five are exceptional, but I would have to say my favorite is the sling, I cannot wait to use one with our little ones. The receiving blanket and stroller both look fabulous as well :)

  140. i also subscribed :)

  141. While I currently only have one child and am trying for a 2nd, I secretly think 3 would be wonderful. I am an only child and have a burning desire to have a some what chaotic but close & loving family. Can you do that with 2? Sure. But I just don’t want to take the chance that somehow one might not be close with the other, or God forbid something should happen and they are left without at least one brother or sister.

    The Young Family Pastor at my church has… get ready… a whopping 6 children!!! They are only in their mid 30’s and the kids all range in ages from 10 to 18 mths! I asked him once what it was like with 6. He said the biggest adjustment for them was going from 1 to 2, because neither parent truly got a break. He said after two, it’s just one more. Yes, chaotic. But then isn’t parenting in the first place? And I don’t think he’d trade the chaos for anything.

    With that said, I think it’s a personal decision. But I’d like to think that more great parents would have more children. Sounds like you’re one of them. :)

    I love all of the products you mentioned. I didn’t use a nursing cover with my first, but will definitely look into the Bebe Au Lait for my next one. And I’m a big fan of the Baby Star burp cloths; not sure why anyone would buy fancy cloths for spit up when they can buy a natural one that is so nicely spruced up.

    But my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE Item on your list would be the Phil & Ted double stroller. I have been checking these out for the past six months in the hopes that we can buy one once we add on to our family. I can’t tell you how many of these I saw when visiting NY and how easily they seemed to maneuver in tight spaces compared to a side by side double! Having made some poor decisions on purchases with my first child, I don’t plan to make the same ones with the second… this will definitely be on my wish list!!! :)

  142. Oh, I subscribed, too.

  143. This is the most amazing giveaway that I have ever seen!!! I would be so excited to win!!!! My second little one just arrived 4 weeks early. July 17th….. She is doing well… but they cut my bladder during the c-section so I am not in the best of shape… pee-bag!!! ugh!!! I am happy to be home though with my 3year old son…. he missed me!!!
    Pam

  144. as you well know from my numerous mws vents, going from one to three at one time, was more than a challenge for me! ;) going from two to three, i would think would be a bit easier? maybe?

    happy anniversary a bit belated, we just had ours recently, a bit different this year with dh gone!

    keep us posted!

  145. What a fun site! For my 3rd baby I had a Hotslings and not only was it so great for my little bundle, but I got so many compliments because it is SO cute! When my daughter was born, our sons were 3 1/2 yrs and 1 1/2 yrs. People thought we were crazy (and still do), but it is always a miracle how wonderful these little babes are, at any age! I definitely think that going from 1-2 is more “complicated” than going from 2-3. As a mom who spends most of the time with the children, we are already outnumbered! It’s all about juggling, right? Yes, it is hard, lots of the time, but I’ve been told that this (babies/toddlers) is the hardest time. Little ones do grow up and the sleepness nights are a memory in the past. Once that child enters your life, you can’t imagine life without them. However the opposite may also be true, imagining life with another child, you could wonder forever! Good things to think about! Thanks!

  146. Happy Birthday BLD!
    While we are still enjoying our 1 year old, we eagerly anticipate having more. I am an only child and have recently lost my father. Coming from a smaller family and watching my husband’s big, close family it stings a little to know I will never know how that feels. So, with that we are certain to have 2, possibly three. Though we do not know what the future holds, we want to do everything we can to ensure that our children can be ‘there for eachother’ in the future when we are no longer on this earth and even before that. We hope to nurture their relationships so that they may appreciate one another in their adulthood.
    Best of luck on your decision.

  147. The thing that comforted me the most going through fertility treatment was the knowledge that we would have the children that we are meant to have. So you may not be sure what to do, but fate will show you the way! And the girl you long for may be the boy that you can’t imagine not having, or it could be twins! haha. So go with the flow, that’s the beauty of it all. Good luck!
    I love babystar the best. : )

  148. Hi there! Love your site and congrats!!!

    We only have one little boy but we are hoping to try for number 2 by the end of the year. My husband and I have talked about whether or not we would try for a third if we didn’t have a girl and I have to say that as long as my pregnancy was good and both of us were healthy and we had money and time we’d try for number 3. My BF has 3 little girls and she is awesome at managing everything! I think it takes organization and discipline and time but she is having a blast and is such a good mom…

    I LOVE the Phil and Teds Sport Buggy stroller! : ) Perfect for that second baby!

  149. I like the hotsling best!

    And you increase your chances of having a girl if you do the deed a few days before ovulation. It worked for us!

  150. I only have one kid, but I was one of three girls - the middle one! We had our spats but I love my sisters, they are my best friends.

    Oh, and I love those Phil and Ted strollers! They make me drool a little bit. :)

  151. Gus and Clay's Mama Says:

    Yup- we’re having the same debate here. Financially, space-wise, etc, two makes the most sense. But I want a girl (but would of course be happy with and love another boy also). My partner thinks three is too many, I’m still not decided… sigh.

    I love our phil and teds- we have the e3 with tandem seat, and it rocks!

  152. Happy Birthday BLD! Sweet Site :)

    We have three girls. The expenses are high but we don’t regret having three. Each one has a different personality that we can’t help but love.

    I wish I knew about the Phil and Ted strollers when my girls were toddlers.

    Hugs, Danette

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